Where's all the AM/BF luv??
Posted 08-25-2008 at 01:42 PM by UrSassyGirl
[B][COLOR="Magenta"][FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Hey guys! I wrote this after seeing a crazy post about why Asian Men don't give much attention to Black Females. After reading it I definitely had to give my opinion about it. So here goes... I think that the reason that most Asian men "do not give much attention to black women" is because of society and stereotypes. The media praises and glorifies beautiful white women and beautiful lighter skinned black women all the time, but u rarely see (with exception of the beautiful Ms. Naomi Campbell) any beautiful darker skinned black women being praised and glorified in the media. Although I disagree completely with societies and the medias views because all colors are beautiful and one isn't better than the other. I think if there was more [B]AM/BF[/B] couples shown in the media or just talked about more often it would become more tolerated and accepted. I for one have to be attracted, of course, to the guy whether Black, White, Asian or what ever race, but how dark their skin color is makes no difference to me. I would love to see more [B]AM/BF [/B]love stories and movies! Maybe that day will happen soon.
As far as the stereotypes go, most BF are portrayed as loud, controlling, "ghetto fabulous" and more negative traits which is so untrue. I'm sure there are some BF that have some of those traits, but all women have their flaws, but not one woman is the same. You might see a loud ghetto fabulous black female with big hair and big earrings on a tv show that you've watched, but that doesn't mean that the beautiful black female sitting across from you(on the subway, bus or where ever you are)is the same as the woman you saw on the tv show.So until all Black Females are seen in a better light just remember guys... Keep an open mind!! Your soulmate might jus be sitting right across from you...[/FONT][/COLOR][/B]
As far as the stereotypes go, most BF are portrayed as loud, controlling, "ghetto fabulous" and more negative traits which is so untrue. I'm sure there are some BF that have some of those traits, but all women have their flaws, but not one woman is the same. You might see a loud ghetto fabulous black female with big hair and big earrings on a tv show that you've watched, but that doesn't mean that the beautiful black female sitting across from you(on the subway, bus or where ever you are)is the same as the woman you saw on the tv show.So until all Black Females are seen in a better light just remember guys... Keep an open mind!! Your soulmate might jus be sitting right across from you...[/FONT][/COLOR][/B]
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You have nice cheek bones in my books! :D
Now what was that you said...?? hehe. |
Posted 08-26-2008 at 11:06 AM by JCLau003
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