That is very true, your smart

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Jane Goodall's observation of a female monkey mounted by 13 different males lends credence.

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Hmmm... so what did you do to deserve such a treat?

lol I don't know if it's a treat, I just gave my im info out to the wrong man!

Speaking for myself and probably a few other women as well. Guys, we really don't understand why you're so proud of your penis. They are ugly. Not that I don't love them, they feel amazing. Oh, and every guy has one, you are the not the only man with one. Even if YOU think it's special, there's one that's longer, harder, thicker, more veiny, has a better special curve, or even is a better shade of purple than yours.

We love your penis because we love you. So just tossing out a pic of the penis in the first conversation is not going to make us cream our panties in lust.

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Dogs are not asexual....there are males and females....there are scorned american males abound as well.Some will train their sons to victimize before they can even establish their own thoughts on things..only difference is that many of the men go to the other side...women by far stay on the good side as healing victims...(Lucky they know better...most of the time....I see some of this hate transfered to their daughters though...scary)

as for chinese men being more promiscuous than others...I don't buy that what's so ever....maybe there are other races like men from tibet being most likely more virtuous...(I said most likely)

I know that when japanese man is good they are very good....but when they are bad?...OOOOH shit they are baaaaaaaad..(or women for that matter...)

So I think the cheating thing is a oxymoron to generalize.

I think learning the culture and where you're mate fits into that is crucial...if you can learn the language, you are solidifying the bond to safe areas....I know many who has learned and succeeded in being united fully. Takes time and patience.

Second date is too early to determine. Take your time before you make any drastic moves. Your boy prolly would know how to take it slower.(I'm not talking sex)..talk about it with him and make sure he's aware of you're intent in life. And don't be afraid to talk about true feelings in fear of loosing a relationship. Telling the truth is far less damaging than telling a lie or not telling...those things will sever ropes made of iron. You tell the truth and you loose the relationship. That is a good end.

good luck

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Thanks, so going slow in defining the relationship is OK. I would like to be a girlfriend but he wants to see how it goes and go slow.

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One message to convey to your boy would be that if you have fucked, you're a man and a woman in relationship....I would say that equates to bf and gf....imo...Don't wuss out on that or you'll pay with your spirit.....anything else is promiscuousness.

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Victor Schauberger





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True, thanks! I just dont know how to put it LOL, I am not usually like this...so it is off as I enjoy his company, I just dont know what to say so he understands as well as not sounding like hey, you owe me a relationship now...I dunno...ahhh!!

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Sooo true!!

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I think Shanghai men should be shy and somewhat reserve, don't know...