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Old 08-10-2008, 11:09 PM
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I am so sick of this!

My ex tried to contact me again, after a YEAR of not talking to me. He added me on facebook and said he just wanted to say hello. I want nothing to do with him, he's in the past and the past is where I want him to stay. So I wrote him back and told him to consider the message I was sending him a goodbye and I hoped that he finds what he is looking for and to take care of himself. He writes back and tells me that he considered my goodbye a long time ago and that he wishes I would consider a "no hard-feelings" hello. Thing is, I don't want anything to do with him. For some reason he contacts me at the strangest times.

So I'm left to making 2 options- I could delete his message and be done with it OR I could respond... how? I am not sure yet...

Advice please...
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Old 08-10-2008, 11:17 PM
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Old 08-10-2008, 11:48 PM
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Old 08-11-2008, 12:06 AM
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my ex did the same thing to me... he messaged me on yahoo so i had to change my ID and he found me on myspace so i had to set my profile to private... i had to change my phone number and when i put a sign up in my yard saying it's for sale by owner i put my number on it... the only way he knew i had it for sale is to drive by my house... i got a text message from him about him selling my house! he's a realtor now i guess and he actually had the nerve to text me... i don't get why he's driving by my house when he's got a fiance and they just had a baby! he drove by before she had her baby tho.... some guys won't get it... it's best just to ignore him... i didn't reply to the text message or the messages on yahoo and myspace
it's best not to tickle their fancy... they'll take any attention they can get even if it's negative
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Old 08-11-2008, 12:16 AM
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my ex did the same thing to me... he messaged me on yahoo so i had to change my ID and he found me on myspace so i had to set my profile to private... i had to change my phone number and when i put a sign up in my yard saying it's for sale by owner i put my number on it... the only way he knew i had it for sale is to drive by my house... i got a text message from him about him selling my house! he's a realtor now i guess and he actually had the nerve to text me... i don't get why he's driving by my house when he's got a fiance and they just had a baby! he drove by before she had her baby tho.... some guys won't get it... it's best just to ignore him... i didn't reply to the text message or the messages on yahoo and myspace
it's best not to tickle their fancy... they'll take any attention they can get even if it's negative
Now that's borderline stalkerish!!

Has he left you alone since?

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Now that's borderline stalkerish!!

Has he left you alone since?

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for now... this is why i want to get out of this town so bad... people tell me about him or ask me about him and his family... we haven't been together for almost 3 years
i got that text about 3 months ago but people keep telling me they saw him and this girl and she's pregnant and blah blah... i don't really care and i just need out of here so i don't have to listen to it anymore
i can't wait to get out
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Old 08-11-2008, 12:32 AM
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for now... this is why i want to get out of this town so bad... people tell me about him or ask me about him and his family... we haven't been together for almost 3 years
i got that text about 3 months ago but people keep telling me they saw him and this girl and she's pregnant and blah blah... i don't really care and i just need out of here so i don't have to listen to it anymore
i can't wait to get out
I remember the blogs you used to post about him on the other site. Wow, a total nut.

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I remember the blogs you used to post about him on the other site. Wow, a total nut.

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yea i know right!!
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My ex tried to contact me again, after a YEAR of not talking to me. He added me on facebook and said he just wanted to say hello. I want nothing to do with him, he's in the past and the past is where I want him to stay. So I wrote him back and told him to consider the message I was sending him a goodbye and I hoped that he finds what he is looking for and to take care of himself. He writes back and tells me that he considered my goodbye a long time ago and that he wishes I would consider a "no hard-feelings" hello. Thing is, I don't want anything to do with him. For some reason he contacts me at the strangest times.

So I'm left to making 2 options- I could delete his message and be done with it OR I could respond... how? I am not sure yet...

Advice please...
Ignore him. Do whatever brings you happiness and/or improves your life.
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