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**ProAzn** · #1 (**permalink**) 09-01-2007, 02:03 AM

5 things I found out about that keeps your man happy. Learn very fast how to slip into roles when they are needed. I don't mean as in acting, I mean slip into the roles with your heart:

1. Know how to cook. Most men enjoy eating. They love good food. Reminds them of mom. (This is where you slip into your mother role). Most men won't admit it, but they love to be babied sometimes; especially if they are sick or need motherly comfort.

2. Know how to LISTEN. Men aren't much for chatting about what they call "senseless things" but when they do talk, they want you to pay attention (This is where you slip into your best friend role)

3. know how to scold gently. Men can't handle all that crazy yelling and screaming. You go at him with all that bitchy witchy shit, and they shut your ass off quickly. They might even walk out during the argument. Learn to argue with logic and reason (yeah, i know, we women struggle with that one). VERY IMPORTANT (This is where your sisterly role comes in) Learn how to argue without ripping him a new one.

4. Give the man space to breathe sometimes. Being in his face 24/7 will make him resent you. He needs his time out with the boys just like you need your time out with the girls. or even just give him time alone. TRUST HIM! If you don't learn to do that YOU ARE DOOMED together. Jealousy is a HUGE relationship killer. (This is a mix of your best friend/wife/lover role)

5. Give the man loads of raw SEX. I am talking as much as you can possibly give them; until they almost choke on it. Men are natural sexual predators. They want a woman who respects herself, doesn't flaunt herself around other men, and is a good woman overall. BUT they want a raving whore in bed. They want you to let go totally in bed and to give them your all. So give them all the passion you got; with both barrels. They need to know you are totally into what they are doing to you. I haven't found a man yet that doesn't want this. Give him all that sex, and you won't have to worry about him screwing around. Be inventive in bed; they love that. It keeps the sex interesting; for you AND for him. (Of course, this is where you slip into your whore role).

5 things that make your man unhappy fast:

1. Nagging: Don't nag and complain a lot. Men can't stand that.

2. Making him mind-read: Don't expect a man to KNOW what your thinking and to know how to handle and deal with all your emotional needs.

3. Don't yell and scream at him. Just like I said above, men can't handle those sudden crazy emotional daggers you throw at them. They feel helpless and don't know how to fight it. It scares the HELL out of them.

4. Don't try to make him jealous because you think that will make him want you more. Men can't handle it. They have a natural instinct to fight to protect you. More often than not it brings out of them a fighting mood and they want to pound the other guys face in. It will mostly result in pissing them off than make them want you.

5. Don't play head games, lie and play with his heart. That will really put a rift between you. A man will leave you fast if you do those things. Men like straight and simple facts and talk. Honesty (with men and women) is very important.

hylas · #2 (**permalink**) 09-01-2007, 02:36 PM

You are something.

Whispering Wind · #3 (**permalink**) 09-01-2007, 08:16 PM

2. Making him mind-read: Don't expect a man to KNOW what your thinking and to know how to handle and deal with all your emotional needs.

Thanks for the sensibility ProAzn.

Siren · #4 (**permalink**) 09-01-2007, 09:38 PM

wait...you mean i gotta TELL him what im thinking???????????

awww. but thats much less fun :P

Angellebabie · #5 (**permalink**) 09-02-2007, 12:33 AM

LOL! All I know is sometimes I miss pampering my guy. I loved waking him up that special way and writing notes in his lunch box. I really miss just being there for him.

Lioness · #6 (**permalink**) 09-02-2007, 03:19 AM

This is a good list. Some of the items come naturally, but others do take experience and self-reminders.

**ProAzn** · #7 (**permalink**) 09-02-2007, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Lioness

This is a good list. Some of the items come naturally, but others do take experience and self-reminders.

yes it does. And I like your new pic Lioness. Very nice.

Lioness · #8 (**permalink**) 09-02-2007, 03:52 AM

Thank you! I am using my new, thinner-me pics for my online dating profile, and the difference in responses is quite amazing.

azulee · #9 (**permalink**) 01-09-2008, 05:01 PM

Aren't that exactly the same things that make your woman happy or unhappy?

actionzombie · #10 (**permalink**) 04-28-2008, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ProAzn

5 things I found out about that keeps your man happy. Learn very fast how to slip into roles when they are needed. I don't mean as in acting, I mean slip into the roles with your heart:

1. Know how to cook. Most men enjoy eating. They love good food. Reminds them of mom. (This is where you slip into your mother role). Most men won't admit it, but they love to be babied sometimes; especially if they are sick or need motherly comfort.

2. Know how to LISTEN. Men aren't much for chatting about what they call "senseless things" but when they do talk, they want you to pay attention (This is where you slip into your best friend role)

3. know how to scold gently. Men can't handle all that crazy yelling and screaming. You go at him with all that bitchy witchy shit, and they shut your ass off quickly. They might even walk out during the argument. Learn to argue with logic and reason (yeah, i know, we women struggle with that one). VERY IMPORTANT (This is where your sisterly role comes in) Learn how to argue without ripping him a new one.

4. Give the man space to breathe sometimes. Being in his face 24/7 will make him resent you. He needs his time out with the boys just like you need your time out with the girls. or even just give him time alone. TRUST HIM! If you don't learn to do that YOU ARE DOOMED together. Jealousy is a HUGE relationship killer. (This is a mix of your best friend/wife/lover role)

5. Give the man loads of raw SEX. I am talking as much as you can possibly give them; until they almost choke on it. Men are natural sexual predators. They want a woman who respects herself, doesn't flaunt herself around other men, and is a good woman overall. BUT they want a raving whore in bed. They want you to let go totally in bed and to give them your all. So give them all the passion you got; with both barrels. They need to know you are totally into what they are doing to you. I haven't found a man yet that doesn't want this. Give him all that sex, and you won't have to worry about him screwing around. Be inventive in bed; they love that. It keeps the sex interesting; for you AND for him. (Of course, this is where you slip into your whore role).

5 things that make your man unhappy fast:

1. Nagging: Don't nag and complain a lot. Men can't stand that.

2. Making him mind-read: Don't expect a man to KNOW what your thinking and to know how to handle and deal with all your emotional needs.

3. Don't yell and scream at him. Just like I said above, men can't handle those sudden crazy emotional daggers you throw at them. They feel helpless and don't know how to fight it. It scares the HELL out of them.

4. Don't try to make him jealous because you think that will make him want you more. Men can't handle it. They have a natural instinct to fight to protect you. More often than not it brings out of them a fighting mood and they want to pound the other guys face in. It will mostly result in pissing them off than make them want you.

5. Don't play head games, lie and play with his heart. That will really put a rift between you. A man will leave you fast if you do those things. Men like straight and simple facts and talk. Honesty (with men and women) is very important.

100% dead on. I wish every women in this planet can read this article.

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