Lately there have been alot of threads about your worst dates and so on...
So what is the worst way you have dumped someone or have been dumped?

My own experience:

He told me lets try and be friends, then we can get back together later... And he stopped calling me for a month! He IMs me after an entire month and tries to get some... I pulled out the "I'm seeing someone now" card. Hehehe, works every time!

This one I never actually dated him but...

There was a guy in high school who had a huge crush on me. I found out and stopped talking to him. At lunch he came up to me and wanted to talk: "Jaci, we need to talk."
My response: "No we don't."
And he walks away looking like the most pitiful person ever. I was so mean back then...

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lol ive had many! i guess the worst was this one guy i was with on and off throughout a year. everytime we broke up is because i kept catching him making out with other chicks..ah to be young dumb and overly forgiving lol

One guy broke up with me by leaving a message on my voice mail ... coward!

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So many (Asian) men ... so little time ... ha ha

Here is mine: (Sorry it's a hell of a long read)


1. The Shitty Cheat

In Germany, I was with this guy for over a year; then we moved in together. One night on his birthday, he also had a Christmas party at work. He told me they were not allowed to take SO's or whatever so I had to sit at home waiting for him to get out of the party so we could do our own celebration. He said he would go for a little while then come home. 10 o'clock came around and he wasn't home yet. I thought "ok, he should be home soon", so started watching some TV. It got towards midnight and still he wasn't home. I started to get concerned. By the time 1am came around I knew something was wrong. Since he had taken the car, I couldn't drive over to his work to see if something had happened to him. Beside, it was way across the city (It was in Berlin). So, I remembered a friend he had that lived pretty close to where my guy worked. So I called him up, told him what happened and that I was very worried. His friend drove down to where my guy's work was and called me telling me that my guy's car was still at his work, but the lights were all off in his work building (meaning the party was over etc). I really started to freak out. I started to imagine all kinds of horrible things that could have happened to him, like maybe he got drunk and passed out somewhere, or he got into a fight and got hurt. My guy's friend started calling hospitals all over Berlin. I did too. All the hospitals said they did not have anyone admitted by that name and that they had no anonymous drunk cases come in that fit his age and description. Ok, that was good to know but still didn't answer my question of "Where the hell was he?"

My whole night was filled with worry, panic and upset. I sat up ALL night waiting for him to call me or come home. NOTHING. I finally passed out on the couch at around 5 am. I woke up at around 10 am and he STILL was not home. I cried A LOT. Finally, he came in around noon time. I tried to keep my temper and asked him where the hell he had been and what happened and why the hell didn't he call me. That's when he told me something I never thought would have ever happened, nor did I think he would ever have done that to me. He told me he slept with a girl from work and had stayed over-night at her place. To make matters even worse (if that was possible), he confessed he had been seeing her for 3 months already.

All the pain, worry and panic that had built up in me those last 12 hours, hit me in the gut like a bomb. I did something that I never thought I would do to anyone.. I drew back my fist and hit him square in the nose. I hit him so hard that my feet came off the ground. It knocked him down, all 6'5" of him. He was a big guy but he hit the floor like a rock. This is NO exaggeration. I really hit him THAT hard.

Needless to say, I left after that. I packed my shit and left. I moved in with a friend of mine. Oh, he tried to get me back, but hell no.. I wasn't having it lol I gave him credit for telling the truth straight up, but it was not enough to forgive what he had done. Know what I mean?

I was appalled at myself for a long time, that I actually hit him. I never thought I would do that to another person.. thank god I haven't after that. But still I was not proud of myself.

2. The Control Freak

I had been going out with this Chinese guy for a while. We got along great. But shortly after our relationship, I started to notice that he was becoming more demanding and controlling. He started calling me at my friends like to check up on me (oh he had an excuse each time but I knew what he was doing because he could have called my cell phone but would call her house phone). He started trying to dictate to me what to wear (even though I wore the same things when I met him). He didn't like my friends etc.. It was things like that that started. Then he got worse. I did everything I could to show him that he had nothing to worry about. It didn't help much. I actually broke up with him over this. We reconciled about a month or two later. Things seemed to be much better; or so it seemed.

Well, one morning I had gone out the door to go to work. I happened to look to my left. I saw a car a little ways down the street parked in front of one of my neighbour's house. I recognized it pretty quickly. It was HIS car. I got curious and walked down the street to investigate. I got to the car and saw him asleep in the car seat. My temper flared up. I knocked on the window, LOUDLY. It woke him up. He saw it was me and had this "uh, oh shit" look on his face. He rolled down the window. I asked him what the hell he was doing there. It hit me then. This guy had sit out ALL night watching my house because he wanted to make sure I wasn't leaving it after he had dropped me off the night before. He was checking if I was going to leave the house again. I freaked out. I dropped his ass right then and there and told him if I EVER saw him around my house again, I would put a restraining order out on his ass.

Now, I can tolerate A LOT in a relationship and I mean A LOT. But THAT was just too damn weird for me. It really freaked me out; so much so that for about a month after that, a friend of mine lived with me in case he tried some shit. He tried calling etc but I didn't answer it. He eventually left me alone.

3. The Liar

I had met this Korean guy that I had an instant bond with. He is also the same Korean guy I wrote my true erotic story about in the "Erotic stories and True Sexual Experiences" forum. We got close and fell in love. I really fell hard for this man. I mean I LOVED HIM more than any guy to that point. We had a fantastic relationship. It was something dreams were made of. I mean BEAUTIFUL. The best sex I have ever had to this date, was with him.

Well, about almost a year later, he broke some news to me. He had to go back to Korea. He wouldn't tell me why at first. I had to keep hounding him. I mean if I am being left, I want to know why; wouldn't you? Finally, he told me the truth. He was married and had a son. A 4 YEAR OLD SON. I was devastated.

I mean this guy lied to me the whole time. He told me he was single. Turns out the SOB was married with a kid. You can imagine how I felt; used, abused and completely f'ing STUPID.

That break up hurt me more than any break up has yet. God, I really really loved him so much. And he did that to me.

It's a wonder I still have so much faith in love, isn't it?


But you know what, even after those two Asian guys that hurt me like that, I still LOVE and believe in Asian men.

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wow, and i thought mine were bad...

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Well share yours so we could know.

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First one was with my Korean ex. He disappeared for a few weeks, and i finally saw him in a library in college. I asked him if its over, he said yes. I don't remember the whole exchange (it took place three years ago...) but i remember i end up crying outside the library and some people got a couselor for me to see. It happened on a Friday, day i should've taken my math test but didn't. Everyone told me that he was a liar. He claimed big things about himself; such as being a liuternant in an air force (he's only three years older tahn me...) and a 7th or 8th degree black belt. He never gave me the proof i needed to believe him.

In 2006, i met this Chinese guy in person. I honestly thought he and i had a great time together. (We first met on the 'net.) But apparently he didn't, and he pretty much disappeared on me and i never heard from him since.

There's been another close instance, althought the guy and i were not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. I started talking to this Korean guy in 2007, and we got along fine. He claimed he had some pc trouble and even took the time to go into a neighbor's house to let me know that he can't make it for our date. He wrote me one email, and i never heard from him since.

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wow that sounds bad sveta sorry. yeah breakups suck

i haven't dated that many people but usually theyd end mutually. no i dont believe in the lets be friends thing, but i truly believe that we could still be civil and truly wish happiness for both parties even if it means we're not together. the worst breakup ive ever had was when i caught the girl cheating with a good friend of mine. i wouldnt wish that on anyone

lol a guy had a crush on you and you stopped talking to him? What a heart breaker.

lol you know what? Take your sarcasm else where! Put that in your juice box and SUCK IT!

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