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Old 06-17-2008, 10:48 PM
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Significant age differences

You have all heard of relationships between people who have a significant number of years between them, but with all things considered, is it such a bad idea? I am curious what everyone thinks about this, because I have noticed several examples in which two people are together and the man is much older than the woman, and they seem very happy and functional. It has sort of changed my opinion on the matter. Why does everyone frown on this kind of practical relationship these days?

After all, this kind of relationship is only recently considered taboo, yet Ashton and Demi seem to be pretty happy. MILF and cougar terms as it applies to woman seem to have a more negative connotation than when it was an old geezer and a young chic for example.
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Stereotypical relationships such as those make you wonder why such couples are together. There is always the notion of someone being a "sugar daddy/mommy" or "gold digger" when there are significant years between couples. Though it's not as striking when couples scale up in age. I'm not sure if I would go as far as saying people frown upon this type of relationship, but rather a curiosity of what the foundations are of such relationship.

Most people assume that folks who enter into such relationships are not committed entirely based on love, but rather for material/monetary gain.

I think it's a little different when couples fall into the mentioned category but are both established and financially independent. Then it's just a question of taste. But one would never know the true reason from an outsiders perspective, which is probably why it's just assumed that the younger partner is usually a gold digger and the older partner is in it for the sex.
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Good Post CL, this is my same view on the subject.


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Stereotypical relationships such as those make you wonder why such couples are together. There is always the notion of someone being a "sugar daddy/mommy" or "gold digger" when there are significant years between couples. Though it's not as striking when couples scale up in age. I'm not sure if I would go as far as saying people frown upon this type of relationship, but rather a curiosity of what the foundations are of such relationship.

Most people assume that folks who enter into such relationships are not committed entirely based on love, but rather for material/monetary gain.

I think it's a little different when couples fall into the mentioned category but are both established and financially independent. Then it's just a question of taste. But one would never know the true reason from an outsiders perspective, which is probably why it's just assumed that the younger partner is usually a gold digger and the older partner is in it for the sex.
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