I guess its probably best to not use those terms in front of asian females. Before joining this site I'm not sure what I would have thought if I had heard those phrases. Now though I understand it means that you appreciate guys like me.

I think not much of bunch of dudes sitting around and spitting jap and chink....usuallly fits their character and their image...

Now bunch of girls sitting around spitting masculine venom...what a graceless image....eeeewwwwwww.

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Ok, this thread is a little old but here's my two yen:

I'm physically attracted to Asian faces over those of any other race, but that doesn't mean I'll date *any* Asian, or *only* Asians. A wonderful man is a wonderful man, and if I'm attracted to him, I won't reconsider dating him just because of his race. And an asshole is an asshole; I won't date one even if he's the hottest (to me) guy I've ever seen.

For me, it's like preferring brunettes to blondes: sure, I'll date a blonde, but if it were in my power, I'd want my partner to have brown hair. It's mostly a physical thing, and it's not a fetish because (a) I don't require my partners to be of a certain race, despite having preferences, and (b) I don't believe that race or culture dictates personality (i.e. I've never thought "I want to date an Asian because ALL Asians are kind.")

If I only dated other white people, no one would bat an eye. But some people (white AND Asian) seem to see it as out of the ordinary when I date someone who's not white. I would never be asked to explain why I'm attracted to white guys, but I do have people ask why I'm attracted to non-white guys. Kind of silly, really: we all have certain "types" we find attractive (for me it's dark spiky hair, big dark eyes, nice biceps), so why ask why?

I doubt a white guy would think twice before hitting on me if he were interested, but I notice that some Asian guys -- even the ones raised in North America -- can be a bit more hesitant, as they have to gauge whether I'll reject them on the basis of race (a valid concern, as many people do that). That's why I like the idea of a site like this: let's get the word out that there's nothing strange about white women dating Asian men!

I just can't see myself dating white guys ever again. Even if he is a nice guy. I mean it wouldnt be fair for me to date a white guy knowing that I will be lusting over asian guys for the rest of my life.

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나는 한국 남자를 사랑한다.
Se7en

I just can't see myself dating white guys ever again. Even if he is a nice guy. I mean it wouldnt be fair for me to date a white guy knowing that I will be lusting over asian guys for the rest of my life.


But no matter who you marry, you'll still be lusting after (other) asian guys for the rest of your life anyway, right? And even if you marry a total stud, he'll still end up old one day, and you might still lust after gorgeous youth...

I can see your point, though. You need to be attracted to your partner, and he needs to feel secure that he's your type and you're not wishing he was someone else.

I'm gonna pipe up and say this: I have dated guys all across the ethnicity board, but I found out that I had the most fulfilling relationships with Asian men. I relate better to them for a multitude of reasons-if I don't end up with one that's fine but I prefer and find Asian men have morals or ethics that I share.
Also, they look so yummy in the mornings...

Yeah nothing better than waking up every morning to a hot, naked asian.

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나는 한국 남자를 사랑한다.
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for me.. one of my point of views..

because i am attracted to asian people does not make the "asian" man a better fit for me just because he is asian the whole package has to be considered! for me to say i love "asians" is true .. i do, i get along better with them and lots of emotions go unsaid, i just understand.. i suppose this is why most "asians" befriend me or are in my life.. kind of a karma thing OR i was just born into the wrong life/body/family/city?

Because i had a previous relationship with someone "asian" and because i had kids, i just assumed i would be steretyped and my chances of dating another "asian" guy.. let alone korean was just out of the question...

so for me, i had to walk this earth blind so to speak, not noticing any MALE, i kept to myself, i ran with the female pack thinking this would be the best way to raise kids as a single mom.. i accepted this..

then something clicked oneday.. and i realized i did want to date and find someone for myself.. he didn't have to be "asian" at all.. just kind, like minded,interested in being a parent(husband and father)someone who could accept the potential oddness of the relationship being multi-cultured being succsessful and an individual a complete intact person. I had really set the bar high..because i refused to go backwards in life..

so.. what can i say, i got who i love..physically/mentally/emotionally and i couldn't be any happier.. the great part about it, he picked me.. i was just as much his choice as he was my own.

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I have always had a attraction toward AM, although never dated one right away. My first was a WM and after 4 years, we broke up. Now after I dated a Korean man, it made me realize how much I really liked them and how attracted I was. I go by the personality more so than looks, if he is a jerk but gorgeous, not going to happen. But looks is a bonus but I find mostly all AM have their sexy side. So now I only date AM because I trust my instinct's and follow what I feel to be right.

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Okay...

Asian Male Fetishes.

Fantastic topic and one which I've actually studied... Okay, I'm an anthropological freak show, big deal. Really though, when I was studying in a Japanese gender and sexuality class the topic came up and it just kind of went from there.

There are tons of reasons why a woman might have an "Asian male fetish", as it's seen. First of all, it's considered a fetish because it's not the "norm". If a white woman ONLY wanted to date white men then she wouldn't have a "white male" fetish. Why? Well because it'snormal for her to want to be with her own race. This is the thinking, which of course is total bull #*@&.

If a woman likes Asian men in particul