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Old 07-16-2008, 10:11 PM
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Angry once again, another failed relationship

Once again bad luck seems to follow me.
Tae broke up with me because he accused me of flirting online with other asian guys after we finally met in person (which I did not) and he also hacked my email and read all my messages (he had no right to do that) He had found out that I dated several men (casual relationships) and said that disgusted him. Who I dated before I met him is none of his business but apparently he doesnt agree.

Its a damn shame too . I really was crazy about him. But nothing I can do about it.
I was so upset that I drank a whole 6 pack of Soju in just a few hours...

I decided that I cant live in this small town anymore. So Im renting an apt from my dad. I will be relocating to Las Vegas next week.

But Im not giving up, Im just gonna keep on dating until I find the right asian guy.
(but I am going to take a break from dating)
Ill get it right one of these days

-Melanie
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Old 07-16-2008, 10:13 PM
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You will. You're right he had no right to invade your privacy. But that shows that he didn't trust you and no guy like that is worth keeping around.

Keep your chin up and keep smiling. You'll find the right one eventually.
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Old 07-16-2008, 10:25 PM
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sorry to hear it didn't work out.
he sounds like a proper control freak if you ask me. it's better that you found that out before you got married to him.

good luck with your romance life in vegas.
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Old 07-16-2008, 10:25 PM
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Once again bad luck seems to follow me.
Tae broke up with me because he accused me of flirting online with other asian guys after we finally met in person (which I did not) and he also hacked my email and read all my messages (he had no right to do that) He had found out that I dated several men (casual relationships) and said that disgusted him. Who I dated before I met him is none of his business but apparently he doesnt agree.

Its a damn shame too . I really was crazy about him. But nothing I can do about it.
I was so upset that I drank a whole 6 pack of Soju in just a few hours...

I decided that I cant live in this small town anymore. So Im renting an apt from my dad. I will be relocating to Las Vegas next week.

But Im not giving up, Im just gonna keep on dating until I find the right asian guy.
(but I am going to take a break from dating)
Ill get it right one of these days

-Melanie

dayumm.. sorry chica. seems bad luck follows. they say things move in cycles of 3's. maybe next one will hit the jackpot.

btw.. ur a geneticist? that many jobs in that field? first cali then illinois and coming up vegas? ..just askin sista.

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Old 07-16-2008, 10:44 PM
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Talking

Yes Im a geneticist and there are alot of biotech companies there...

Plus Vegas has a koreatown and chinatown- that should keep me busy for awhile
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Old 07-16-2008, 10:59 PM
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Man, I am so sorry to hear this. You were so sure this one was right.

However, I think it was wrong of him to break into your email and read your private messages then turn around and judge you on it. Are you sure he wasn't just looking for a reason to break it? Anyway, you don't need a guy that would do that anyway.

I think it's a good idea you decided to take a little break from dating. Perhaps you got into this relationship too fast after the last one ended. Also, next time you meet someone, take it slow.

I am happy to hear you didn't give up on Asian men overall. Sounds like you are pretty determined and know just what you want. You remind me of myself with that. I had a couple of failed relationships with Asian men but THAT didn't stop me. I love Asian men as much as ever.

Good luck.. heal your heart.. then look for your Asian man.
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Old 07-16-2008, 11:22 PM
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Old 07-16-2008, 11:22 PM
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Sorry to hear that Melanie. Hope the next one works out. Good luck!

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Old 07-17-2008, 12:13 AM
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now if I could only find one that looks like Se7en hmmm...
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