Clearly, I'm a master of suspense. Totally joking. :P

Anyways, I've always wondered why my goofy self has such trouble finding girls I'm attracted to that I end up believing are worth pursuing ..and why the few I end up chasing after always turned out to be a rather fruitless effort on my part.

I don't want this to be a, "I'm an angry, bitter asian dude." thread because I'm not. It's actually a sort of random thread because I can't really express what I want to say clearly with words.

I'm just starting to lose some desire to keep pursuing the girls I'm attracted to and settle for the ones who seem to pursue me. I know that sounds crazy but I can't lie and say I don't have some compulsion to do that so I can stop feeling like I keep investing myself in to something that leads to me being unhappy for a while because of a lack of success.

Oh! I could always go gay ..I seem to get hit on by a lot of gay guys at the various clubs I go out to or promote for. Just kidding. :P

I'm pretty sure that there isn't anything grossly wrong with me. I don't think I'm horribly unattractive (We'll get to the self-esteem and self image issues I've had from time to time later on, kids. ), I don't think I'm dumb as a rock, and I don't appear to, from observation, possess some personality trait that immediately turns everyone I meet off to me. Well, I sure hope I don't ..I do promote for nightclubs in my free time on weekends. :P

Oh, and an update on my status, I'm single now. Yeah. People who read my other thread will understand why I'm updating my status. :]

Ok so dating is full of busts! You get people who are crazies and lie to you. But in all honesty, do not go after someone you have no interest or attraction to. I made that mistake and regret even wasting my time on someone like that. It's not worth it.

What exactly are you looking for in a girl? If it's just someone to hang out with and spend time with- there are plenty of girls out there who are looking for that. But if you're looking for someone who wants a more serious relationship you need to tell the person you are interested in what your intentions are, in my opinion.

And as for the the gay thing... If gay's your way... HEEEY!

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Hm. Seems reasonable enough ..I'm starting to wonder if you sleep though. :]

Art students never sleep... and art sluts for that matter.

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See?! I don't think I've ever had someone respond that fast to anything I've written on a forum. Jeepers!

What am I looking for in a girl? Someone to hang out with ..but I guess I'm a cheeseball at heart. I want all the romantic stuff and a girl I'm really comfortable with and can talk to ..both in person and on the phone.

I'm a BIG fan of talking on the phone. I find that it let's you express yourself in a way that writing can't ..unless you're someone like Edgar Allen Poe and I'm certainly not.

LOL! You should find someone to tell that to! Ever heard of "Craigslist"?

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Haha, I've tried that. At this point I've come to the conclusion one out of every million posts is actually from a real person I'd have even a smidge of interest in from what they wrote, how they wrote it, and the picture they throw in.

So I've just decided that clearly I simply have nothing worthwhile to offer to any girl and therefore I am undateable which would explain my rather lacking track record.

Well, I know that's actually a big ball of phooey. I just felt like writing it. But Craigslist has never really worked out to be anything good. Real life hasn't worked out that amazingly either ..I think it's the area I live in. That's actually a serious thought.

Where do you live? A big area would constitute nicely for a single guy. As for me, moving sounds very nice. I'm ready to get out of Florida and make my way to Charlotte.

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