Where is the perfect place to be on the jealousy scale? I either seem too jealous or too non jealous that a guy would think I just don't care at all. I've never punched a guy's gf but it's fun to think about sometimes. Some guys hate jealousy but some love it. What does a girl have to do to show she's jealous without you thinking she's an obsessive crazy controlling stalker? There must be some middle ground... Thoughts everyone?

i'd say you're right, "middle ground" is "ideal," if there is such a thing; concerned enough to ask/talk about it, secure enough to then let it go.

btw, i'm kind of a hypocrite -- giving that answer -- b/c i can be the real jealous type.

I come off as too nonchalant on the jealousy scale, but I do admit I can get pretty upset. I am a passive person by nature and if I ever feel I have to let off some steam it's always in private. Things such as these should be kept to yourself or shared with complete strangers on vbulletins!

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ewww yea....i'm curious too, i get extremely jealous, to the point of if a girl looks/talks to/acts the wrong way near my man (or even a guy i just like or have feelings for) i'll straight up knock a bitch out, i aint playin either. when i left my ex husband i came back to get some of my stuff and he was in bed with a chinese girl...i flipped THE F*ck OUT and drug her by her hair down the stairs and outside, i beat her so badly that she ended up missing several teeth, about half her fake ass extensions and a big scar on her face from smashing her head into a metal mailbox. yea...i doubt anyone will ever think SHES pretty again. i was younger though, and pretty emotionally upset because the 'seperation' had just happened and he was already in bed with some ho! so i guess you cant blame me lol

^ LOL! Siren is awesome!!

But yeah, personally, I don't want a girl to completely not give a sh*t, but too much to the extreme is bad too.

Goodness girl, you think a pinata might relieve some of that stress? Or maybe a bottom weighted blow up clown?

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What if she were a guy who did that? Would it be awesome or assault?

yea, it was assault i got charged with it, payed 6500 dollars in fines and medical bills and 10 days in jail so, i learned my lesson. but you can't tell me that if you found some ho in bed with your husband you wouldnt kick her ass! lol most women would.
don't give me that 'well its not her fault' thing either cuz she seen the pictures of our family all over the walls, the door to my sons room was open she could see that a child lived there, that there was clearly a wedding picture in our room. so she KNEW he was married. if she didnt know, yea i would have maybe reacted different.

I'm with jackstar on this one. It takes a lot to make me jealous, but when I'm with my partner I assume he's with me because he wants to be, and that pretty much nips any jealousy right in the bud!

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For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind. Ralph Waldo Emerson

life is to short to waste on being jealous!

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