Well, how do you rate yourself? Physically and all.

Are you not so attractive physically but your mind and all is very attractive?

I think I am attractive. What do you think of yourself and why?

I think I am okay- meaning not amazingly attractive and not amazingly ugly either. I have bad days and good days. Usually the bad days are REALLY bad though! lol It all depends on my hair!

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Kimi,

Good question! Personally I believe that my mind is the most attractive quality because when you are confident and you know what you want in life, that quality seem to attract the most beautiful opposite sex potential partner you want. I can always change my physical appearance to be the man I want to be but it all starts with the mind.

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Those gals on my avatar are my girlfriends!!

My favorite one is on the left!!!

despite what a lot of people tell me, i dont' find myself attractive. I think my personality is attractive, when i trust someone that is. I guess reason i don't feel pretty is due to school a lot of times, and my past. Growing up, i never could relate to any media tv characters, and rarely saw smart attractive brunnettes. Guys never wanted me when i was in school, so that compounded the problem even more.

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On a scale of 1-10, I'm about a 3 or 4. When I was younger 5 or 6. Man I've dropped. From average to way below average. :-)

I think I'm average, about a 5 on the 10 scale. Not turning heads, but no one is gonna need a barf bag either.

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haha Sadly I feel the same way.
Gelled and done up = attractive.
Plain= Not attractive!

It sounds silly I know but from an aesthetic standpoint...

As for my mind...I don't really know. I suppose it depends on what you consider "attractive".

i think im average as well, and on bad days.. wow! are they really bad! my face is OK! but age is catching up with me,even tho i still appear young my body has caught up to being 30 something.. i think being a mother has helped me be attractive just gives me a quality i don't have apparently when i'm alone. I use to think my personality won people over.. but every now and then, i get that "one" idiot who makes a sexist remark, throws my self esteam out of wack, makes me more self concious.
I have it to flaunt it.. but i choose not to. i lead by example. My girls are beautiful.. but i want them to be beautiful on the inside as well. When i have those bad days.. it seems like people compete with you on the "looks scale".. and like to rub it in, i just think to myself.. "THEY" havent seen nothing yet, boost myself esteam, and because i think at times i am mature and confident no matter what i look like,"THEY" cant bring me down. but .. i think i have always had my own issue's about myself.. keeps me unique.

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Interesting topic. Personally I feel highly attractive.

People tend to condescend themselves on looks and prop others up. That tends to come from personal upbringing and parental methods and especially with asians, it's a way to give face or show sign of respect to a stranger, friend etc. Although there's a difference between "confidence and arrogance" and "attractive versus bragging rights". Physicality is one thing but that only lasts a few nanoseconds for me. If your noggin can't match your looks it doesn't matter if you look like Heidi Klume on the outside but I won't be brainstorming with you anytime soon. What's good for a camera lens is not necessarily good for something deeper. Unless, of course, the woman's intention is to become a trophy wife.

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